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Dave McClure's avatar

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Heartfelt and well written. You could keep going along that path. I for one would read much more.

cathy Joy Briggs's avatar

I love this perspective and your conclusion as well. I'm a greatgrandmother now and I've carried that Crosby Stills and Nash song in my heart the whole way. I would enjoy reading anything written by you. I like your intellect. 'Carry On.'

Mary  Anne Moorman's avatar

This is a heartwarming memory. Thanks

Marty's avatar

So good! You had me from the condom story. In his way, he was a great dad.

Jerry Mackel's avatar

The gifts and the sins of one generation are passed to the next. The secret is Knowing which is which

Charlotte W's avatar

Amazing photo ! And I’d imaging so many Jewish kids of WWII survivors ( and other kids in that era of immigrant parents ) have a similar experience of their parents being pragmatic and not really “parenting “ per se…

They were just parents teaching you how to stay alive and survive the trials of this world !

Great essay :) ⭐️♥️

Marcia's avatar

Love this

Jacqueline Jannotta's avatar

Lovely story of your dad teaching you how to be (and how not to be:-).

Gretchen  Lipski's avatar

Heartfelt, genuine, and funny. I too, was raised by a pragmatic Mom. Often through out my day I am reminded of her, and I will smile and think “she was right” and maybe her pragmatism’s were by design. Thank you, this made me smile.

Mark Rothschild's avatar

So glad you liked it, Gretchen. Here's to all the pragmatists!

Paul Gregory's avatar

Excellent essay. Thanks for reminding me why I wanted to follow you.

Jane Siegel's avatar

Beautiful

Jann Nunn's avatar

Love the photo. Looks almost like a Diane Arbus.

Debra Traskos's avatar

Really enjoyed reading this. Sounds like your son embodies a great deal of the essence of your father.

Judith Buckman's avatar

Loved reading this and also resonated as I knew your dad…

Cindy G's avatar

What a photo!

Jann Nunn's avatar

Did you ever piece together what Dad did with the missing condoms?

Mark Rothschild's avatar

You're killing me. I refuse to consider the options.